I screwed up not once, but TWICE in the space of 2days!!
1st incident : I un-intentionally stepped on a close friend of mine's tail. I'd hereby like to offer my apologies to that person involved. I didn't mean to do that to you. I guess I lost it...
2nd incident : Was supposed to meet-up with another close friend for drinks on Xmas Eve. However, at 'the last moment', I feel like going for BC, of which I told her. She told me she'd go there alone first and I'm to meet up with her once I'm done. To be honest, I do not like the idea of her being there alone waiting for me. Perhaps I'm being MCPish here but knowing how the pubbing environment can be like, I somehow just do not like the idea of a lady-friend of mine drinking there alone, let alone a close lady-friend! Anyway, I told her I'd decide whether if I'm going to join her after gym. Besides, knowing Hero's condition and the potential absence of my sis due to them going to Xmas Eve Mass. In such a case, I would definitely be activated for 'duty'. Not wanting to surprise her with an aeroplane at the very last minute, I pre-empted her about it. She got extremely pissed thinking that I had other programs which I would very much loved to attend and thus tried to think of 'excuses' to reject her. I don't really blamed her for this. Anyway, I didn't explain things to her too because I do not wish to be seen as giving excuses. I ended up not being activated and thus went down to the pub at about 10pm but didn't see her there....
Thinking back on these 2 incidents, perhaps I could have better handled them..... What a Xmas for me :( Hope it can get better next year.
1st incident : I un-intentionally stepped on a close friend of mine's tail. I'd hereby like to offer my apologies to that person involved. I didn't mean to do that to you. I guess I lost it...
2nd incident : Was supposed to meet-up with another close friend for drinks on Xmas Eve. However, at 'the last moment', I feel like going for BC, of which I told her. She told me she'd go there alone first and I'm to meet up with her once I'm done. To be honest, I do not like the idea of her being there alone waiting for me. Perhaps I'm being MCPish here but knowing how the pubbing environment can be like, I somehow just do not like the idea of a lady-friend of mine drinking there alone, let alone a close lady-friend! Anyway, I told her I'd decide whether if I'm going to join her after gym. Besides, knowing Hero's condition and the potential absence of my sis due to them going to Xmas Eve Mass. In such a case, I would definitely be activated for 'duty'. Not wanting to surprise her with an aeroplane at the very last minute, I pre-empted her about it. She got extremely pissed thinking that I had other programs which I would very much loved to attend and thus tried to think of 'excuses' to reject her. I don't really blamed her for this. Anyway, I didn't explain things to her too because I do not wish to be seen as giving excuses. I ended up not being activated and thus went down to the pub at about 10pm but didn't see her there....
Thinking back on these 2 incidents, perhaps I could have better handled them..... What a Xmas for me :( Hope it can get better next year.
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